Here are some step you’ll have to do in order to build up your confidence on your own system!
You Win Some, You Lose Some
You can’t avoid those circumstances. Be wise and move one. Learn from that experience and be better. Pick up yourself and live to trade another day.
Losing is inevitable! You have to accept that fact. Once you understand that you won’t win every trade, then you are right on track for the next step.
Remember, taking a trade lightly means disrespecting yourself and your trading system. It will slowly grow on you and you will lose your confidence in your own ability and in your own system.
Be Open to Changes
Always remember that a trading system is intricate and delicate. Big and even small changes will impact the reward-risk ratio greatly.
Device a plan and always act with data on your side. Adjusting your trading system is the best way to handle these kinds of situations. The market is constantly changing and evolving. Be open to changes, familiarize yourself your numbers (hit ratio, edge ratio..), and start trusting your trading system.